Why Every Woman Needs to RAISE Her Standards Now

 Over the last few years I have spent countless hours UPGRADING myself and my life in every area. What areas of your life could use an OVERHAUL, a little SPRUCING UP, and a little INCREASE? As long as you SETTLE or SIT BACK: ·         WAITING ·         WISHING ·         WONDERING ·         FEARFUL ·         UNMOTIVATED ·         LAZY ·         OVERWHELMED ·         DOUBTFUL You will never get […]

How to Mother Yourself

Even though you are GROWN! It doesn’t matter how old we are…we all still crave a mother’s touch, a mother’s shoulder to cry on, a mother’s love, and a mother’s acceptance of who we are. The truth of the matter is… We don’t always get in a mother what we desire. Others get a great […]

Finding Sweet Strength in Strife: How to Make “Lemonade” Out Of Your Past & Pain

“When life gave me lemons, I made Lemonade.” – Hattie, Jay-Z’s grandmother We are all given lemons. No one is exempt. It doesn’t matter whether you are beautiful, a millionaire, and famous or average, broke, and homeless. What matters though is not the LEMONS you receive, but how you squeeze them, mix them, combine them, […]

8 Ways to Spring Clean Your Life

It’s that time of year when allergies start acting wild and we feel a new zeal for life because it’s a new season. Traditionally, we clean our homes and our closets, but very rarely as women do we spring clean ourselves. Imagine what a renewed and refreshed version of you could bring to the table? […]

How to Be Unbothered By What Others Say & Think

You ever been minding your own damn business or even just in mid conversation…and someone drops some: UNSOLICITED NOT NICE UNCALLED FOR JUDGEMENTAL CALL A SISTAH OUT….SHIT….…….that makes you feel some type of way…not in a good way. This happened to me today and I was like “well damn…just pull all my cards, why don’t […]

Download Your FREE Confidence E-Book!

Is it time you finally became fierce, confident, and unstoppable? Download your e-book here. Being a woman with killer confidence and unstoppable drive is how you should feel every day. Too often women tell me they are…. Struggling with maintaining a positive, confident attitude Feeling like a “hot mess” and can’t get it together Holding […]

4 Ways to Be Confident this Christmas

  Dress to Impress Look your absolute best this holiday season! Add in a little make-up. Put extra time into picking out your clothes. Include jewelry especially if you usually don’t. Watch some YouTube tutorials for ideas. MAKE A STATEMENT!                                                                                                                                                           Prepare Yourself for Negativity Be prepared for questions from family like “when you getting […]

Just Be Yourself: Why You Will Never Win Faking Who You Are

In recent news, Rachel Dolezal (pictured above) NAACP president of the Spokane chapter has been exposed as really being a caucasian woman who has posed a black woman for years. She went as far as marrying (later divorcing) a black man, darkening her skin, attending a Historically Black University (Howard to be exact), giving presentations […]

Forget Being Likeable: Why You Don’t Need to Fit In

As I scrolled through my Facebook timeline recently, I saw an article about Nigerian author (pictured above), Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie recent talk, and it was titled, F%$k Likeability!   You might recognize her name from Beyonce’s song Flawless where she dropped knowledge and wisdom about how our society teaches girls to shrink themselves. She unapologetically […]

Speak Up!: How to Speak With Confidence & Own Your Voice

Most women often wonder, “who am I to speak up and say anything?” My question to you is, “who are you not to?” What makes you any less special or significant than the next woman? Absolutely nothing. Your voice is to be honored, cherished, and valued, but you first must see it that way. Owning […]