Why Every Woman Needs to RAISE Her Standards Now

 Over the last few years I have spent countless hours UPGRADING myself and my life in every area. What areas of your life could use an OVERHAUL, a little SPRUCING UP, and a little INCREASE? As long as you SETTLE or SIT BACK: ·         WAITING ·         WISHING ·         WONDERING ·         FEARFUL ·         UNMOTIVATED ·         LAZY ·         OVERWHELMED ·         DOUBTFUL You will never get […]

Self-Care: How to Put Yourself First More

When you are putting yourself last that means you are subconsciously telling yourself that you don’t matter as much as much as everything else in your life. Ironically, this makes you less happy, less productive, less disciplined, and more prone to feeling resentment, anger, stress, and unworthiness.Stop putting yourself last by making a decision to […]

Why Love Isn’t Working for You: The Real Reason Why You Love Love & Hip Hop Atlanta

It is my Monday night obsession, and one of the few shows I even make time to enjoy. I am not alone. Many of us are tuning into VH1’s hit, Love & Hip Hop Atlanta. We love being entertained by the antics that cover everything but hip-hop and everything wrong with love. No matter how […]

4 Types of Bold Lipcolors to Try This Spring

I LOVE my brown skin! Because of my beautiful brown skin, I don’t have to worry about looking pale in the winter or getting a tan in the summer. I look awesome in bright colors, and I can wear all black like it’s nobody’s business. However, with all this self-love of my brown skin, I […]

3 Ways to Own Your Beauty Flaws and All & LOVE Yourself Fiercely!

  “You can’t eat beauty. It doesn’t feed you.” These are the words of Lupita Nyong’o, the first black African woman to win an Academy award for her role in the movie, 12 Years a Slave. She speaks these lines at Essence Magazine’s annual Black Women in Hollywood Luncheon as she recalls her mother telling her this […]

5 SureFire Ways to Glow & Radiate Confidence Everyday

           Self love is the best love. You’ve heard it a thousand times..well because it’s true but also because at any stage in your life…you just have to have this whole SELF-LOVE thing down girlfriend! I mean self-worth, self-appreciation, self-love whatever you call it is a MUST! You won’t get anything out of this life if […]

The Key to Make Sure Your Life is Going in the Right Direction

There are three questions that any woman could ask herself that would let her know immediately if her life is going in the right direction. As young girls we dream of the possibilities of the life we want to live- part fantasy and part reality. However, many parts of it we can have if we […]

Ready to Live Life Like It’s Golden in 2013

At this particular point in my life I am ready to kick some ass! No, not like that…but like that! Like I am ready to stop making excuses, punch fear in the face, and kick ass into gear…making the next year of my life the best year of my life. I am sick and tired. […]

4 Reasons Why Your VOTE Matters So Much For Women!

Election season is among us! There is no way that anyone can turn their eyes away from it. It is time to stand up for what we believe in, and show up ad show out at the polls! Voting is a political right that we cannot afford to not use. As hard as voting was […]